worth it.

12.01.2011

Yesterday I caught Marcus reading my blog. 
Actually, I didn't catch him. He was sitting next to me at the library when all of the sudden he turned to be with the IHEL look in his eyes to tell me he loved me.
 I wondered what had brought about such affection. He looked embarrassed and wouldn't tell me. After some gentle probing, he admitted that he was reading the first two tabs on my blog (A Lovely Love Story and Us.)
and the memories made him happy. I could tell that he felt good knowing that I was so happy with him.
We've only been married for about a year and a half and even still, remembering is our favorite thing.
We regularly talk about our engagement and how much we hated going home at night.
We talk about our wedding and being surrounded by our family.
We both were so full of love, I'm sure those around us feared a human explosion.
We talk about our 7-week honeymoon adventure, and how it was well-worth the wait.
I read out-loud from my journal, and we laugh about the early stages of dating. 

And then we remember when we moved back up to school and the reality of life began.
And it was beautiful.
Lots of days are busy and 'regular.'
They aren't always filled with magic and romance, but we still get giddy when we're done watching a movie and we know we get to go snuggle in bed. We appreciate it, because we remember what it was like when we couldn't.
We can't wait to see each other after a long day of work because we're each other's best friend.
Little notes around the house showing appreciation can still be found under a pillow or taped to the mirror, because we know courtship isn't over.
It's beautiful to know that he's always there to hold me up when I'm feeling down, and that I'm always there to listen to his dreams in the morning. 
Sometimes the reason I'm feeling down is silly, but sometimes his dreams are silly, too. 
The best thing we can do for each other is to remember the good times, not to judge each other for the bad times, and just love, and receive love in return.
Afterall, that's what a marriage is all about, isn't it?

44 comments

jenni austria germany said...

7 week honeymoon?! oh em gee. i want one of those.

Megan Wara said...

let me tell you, I love love loved this post!!! What a beautiful thing you 2 share :)

Erica Jenkins said...

simply beautiful.  i loved the first part of being married, but it gets even better with time. :) 

Amanda Brooke said...

I'm an engaged lady...and you make me so excited to start the marriage journey with my fella. Thanks for being such a good example of what love should be. 

Britney said...

this is too sweet for words :)

Ashley Nielson said...

it was rather splendid.

Ashley Nielson said...

thank you, sweet girl!

Ashley Nielson said...

that is wonderful :)

Ashley Nielson said...

oh yay! congratulations :)

Ashley Nielson said...

thanks girl!

Alyx Garner said...

I love that first picture! So beautiful! 
And Hubby and I love reminiscing on our [very short] courtship. I love knowing that, like you said, it isn't really over, and we have eternity to spend with each other. 

Rachel Luke said...

Crazy story...
Stephanie Nielson is my friend Alex Clark's aunt.
Such a small world...................

You are SO BEAUTIFUL. And you two are seriously such a perfect match.
Thanks for a lovely story

ruthie said...

This was so cute. Probably my favorite post you've written. My best friend just left for the MTC yesterday, and it's going to be a long two years but I know it's worth it because one day I will be able to feel the things you've described in this lovely post. Thank you Ashley.

Shannon said...

This was the sweetest post EVER!  I loved reading it and sharing in your sweet love story.  You two are adorable and I wish you a lifetime of happiness. 

http://shannonhearts.blogspot.com/

Haleigh Barrett said...

This is beautiful. I am so happy for you, and happy that your happiness in your new marriage is still going. it gives me hope and excitement for my own future temple marriage. thank you for this post!

Abby A said...

This is so sweet and I'm glad you guys are so happy together. You make one cute couple, that's for sure.

beverlopolis said...

How beautiful :)
Marriage is beautiful. Thanks for reminding me <3 

mopharoonie said...

I loved this post!! It was so wonderful! You two are adorable together. I hope to one day have a love like yours. I love reading about your love for each other, I think it is wonderful!

Arielle said...

I love your wedding dress! This was a sweet post. :)

-Arielle

SUZE said...

JUST TODAY my husband and I talked about him reading my blog.  He said, "complete strangers know more about my wife than I do...wait, you wrote about our engagement?  oh wait, is that the first picture we took together?" it was really sweet.

Ashley Nielson said...

we're all connected somehow! hahah
thank you :)

Ashley Nielson said...

that's really sweet! thank you and hang it there

Ashley Nielson said...

thank you so much for the well wishes :)

Ashley Nielson said...

it really is!

Karen Stack said...

You guys kill me. I so wish I was married. I am in the dating game right now and most of the time, I wish I could just find someone that has as much love as you two do. So adorable!!  

Irene Navajas said...

sweet post =)

Johanna said...

Aw, I'm just a little bit, or very, jealous. I hope I get to experience something like what you guys have some day.

tani said...

Thank you for this sweet post today! I feel inspired to make it a special day for my husband now. You guys seem like an awesome couple! 

Leslietheyellowgirl said...

You two make me happy. 

Jessicakutok.blogspot.com said...

this is super cute. thanks for posting this.. it's very honest and beautiful. i love how you talk about how it's not always romantic, but you still get giddy when you get to go to bed and snuggle cuz I'm the same way with my boyfriend. That's my favorite time of the day. Have a wonderful weekend. <3  

Emily Baker said...

great post. What a blessing! Marriage is such a beautiful thing that I pray I'll get to enjoy one day. 

Samantha Clagett said...

Aw you guys are so cute! lovely post girl :D

Mecadeecirah Murmucoturk said...

'The best thing we can do for each other is to remember the good times, not to judge each other for the bad times, and just love..'this isn't the first time i've found quotes in what you say that very literally strengthen my belief in the prospects of real life love.

Ashley Nielson said...

oh man, that makes me so happy! it's real!

Bethall said...

What a sweet post. You guys are adorable of course. Love is the best thing ever. 

Kait Mattingly said...

omg this is so cute. you two look like your so in love and happy as can be!
best of wishes, and love of coursexoxo katlin
kaitgirl.blogspot.com

Lisa Travers said...

Awww I love this! 

Liz Barclay said...

This is so beautiful :) It made me think of my husband and me because we do the exact same things. It's so fun to remember the good times and think of all the great times ahead of you both in your marriage. I love your blog

http://lizbarclay.blogspot.com

Kim said...

You both remind me how much I need to actively cherish and tell my boyfriend how much I love him and how happy I am that he is in my life. Thank you.

Amy Harnois said...

just found your blog and LOVE this post! i agree, that is what marriage is all about!!! now your newest follower!

Maren said...

This was so beautiful!

Mallory Horch said...

You guys are adorable! I blogged about this post:) It made me really happy

Crazyannie91 said...

You guys are so adorable <3 

Cat said...

You guys are too cute, this melted my ice-cold heart! 

© i believe in unicorns. Maira Gall.